Today, in my blog, I would like to share My most intimate-personal story of the happiness of motherhood! Yes, my first daughter is growing up with the "Made in Korea" label, and I'm proud of it! It's hard to imagine what would have happened now if I hadn't taken a single step and gone to Seoul 3 years ago...I wish you all the Happiness of being a Parent! 👐❤❤❤
(Excerpt taken from my book" Angels drink milk " in artistic processing).
"Dear girls, women, their husbands and all
sympathetic relatives! These words I want to dedicate to all those who are desperate in the hope of realizing their
cherished dream to get pregnant and give birth to a child, to all those who
think that they will never experience the happiness of motherhood and
fatherhood.
The fact is that my husband and I also thought
so, we were desperate, we cried, gave up, calculated the cost of a surrogate
mother and realized that we did not have enough funds to pay for her
services…One fine day, we accidentally found information on the Internet about
the South Korean clinic "Women Fertility Center".
If you say that we were catching the clinic
like a drowning man catching at a straw then it would be an understatement! We
decided that it worth a try, so we tried. Let the trip to the South Korean
doctors be the last chance to replenish our family. "If not they, then
who?" I asked myself this question before the trip, and, to be honest, in
my heart, I did not believe in success. In addition, we went to a risky and
expensive enterprise in order to examine
and find out the causes of my infertility, since in Russia doctors refused
me and threw up their hands or worked me
for money. We went on a summer vacation, contacted the coordinator, Regina,
took our tickets and flew into the unknown; into the future (we have a time
zone difference with Korea of +6 hours).
From that wonderful moment, I call this country
the land of Storks, where Angels (doctors
and their assistants) live, who supplies these storks with magic bags, some pink, and some blue!
I will not write here my diagnoses, I think
each of us will have a lot of them and they are all known to the point of
heartache. I will only say that my situation is not the worst: Korean magicians
take on even such "hopeless" girls and their husbands, who have long
been abandoned in Russia or offered to look for donors. We planned everything
to the maximum: both the examination and the IVF at the same time. And it was a
very difficult path. There were more
health problems than we initially thought, and we had to plan a complicated
operation immediately during the puncture. Such a "vacation" I would
not wish on any of my colleagues: a very difficult operation, many tears
dropped, emotions high, a struggle for cells and embryos… But the result of
these actions exceeded expectations! Our wonderful Guardian Angel, doctor of the highest category, Kim Jin-Ho, made the most wise
decisions and made my body as "ideal" as possible. She performed
magic manipulations to improve the patency of the fallopian tubes! This is just
a miracle, their patency has fully recovered after several months.
Of course, I would also like to express my gratitude to the embryologists who
grew our strongest five cells, then planted two of them in the uterus. And of
course, a huge thank you to all the
coordinators, they were "mom and dad" in one person for us and
gave the maximum mental strength for the patients. Unfortunately, it was not possible to transfer our babies
immediately after the operation. At the end of our first visit to Korea, we
flew home with great hope for a favorable outcome of the operation, and we
prayed to God for our cells, which were bound to wait and be defrosted.
How she
leans over to me and motherly says: "Don't worry! Everything will be fine!"
I didn't have to wait long for the second
arrival, and after three and a half months I flew to my country of Storks for
my children with a sinking heart and hope
for a miracle.
Preparing for the cryoprotocol was quick and
easy, and I, realizing that it would not hurt anymore, walked with a completely
different mood through the amazing, golden-red autumn parks and busy streets of
Seoul.
"My little
ones" were defrosted successfully;
it was decided to transfer two, for good luck. A moment of excitement, a kind
smile from the doctor, and now my treasures are in my tummy! Surprise, delight,
anxiety, worry – all the feelings I experienced that week before the HCG
analysis cannot even be described. I will say one thing, somewhere in the
depths of my soul I knew that everything would work out, and of course I prayed
strongly to all the Gods!
When coordinator Regina on the phone happily
said to me: «Congratulations! You are pregnant», I thought that I would faint from
a sudden happiness and the realization that now, just that day. I became a
Mother to very tiny creatures inside me, at the same time I wanted to laugh and
to cry! Judging by the analysis figures, both babies have successfully adapted
and developed. The doctor, of course, warned me about the difficulty of
carrying a multiple pregnancy and asked me to monitor everything.
When I took off over from
my country of Storks and good wizards,
I looked down in fascination and dreamed: «We will definitely return here as a
family very soon!" I'm not saying goodbye, I'm saying «See you soon!»
P.S. a Quick ultrasound
confirmed that both cells had taken root, and for the first time in my life I
saw on the screen the transparent but beating hearts of my babies. Now there is
a difficult time for gestating our precious hopes, we are fighting for their
well-being and birth on time, but this is a completely different story!"
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